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A fascinating discussion about attachment styles and how they shape our relationships! Men make up the majority of those with an Avoidant attachment style, which means they often disassociate with those closest to them for fear of reprisal. No wonder men are more isolated and lonelier.

READ: Attached by Amir Levine, M.D. and Rachel S.F. Heller, M.A.

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READ: Attached by Amir Levine, M.D. and Rachel S.F. Heller, M.A.

The Avoidant-Attachment Paradox

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